Gay Marriage - All in favour...?

Had I been asked my view about gay marriage a few months ago, my off the cuff remark would have been it doesn't affect me so I don't really care. 

However, as the topic has been all over the media for the past few months (and I'm sure in reality, it's been under discussion for years), I've had time to think.

As a father of 4 kids, the law of averages surely means there is a chance one of them will be gay.

I don't want to assume but I used to think it would be one of the boys (unless all boys under 5 like pink and mummy's shoes!). As they've got older football and fighting has kicked in, so perhaps not.  Maybe one of the girls.
One of them does have a massive 'girl crush' on an American TV star....

Victoria Justice at the Kids' Choice Awards 2011

This would be perfectly understandable!


If this turns out to be the case, they may want to settle down with their partner and who knows maybe have a traditional wedding. Both my girls have been confirmed so why shouldn't they want a church wedding.

I'm not a religious person but I do know there is an Old and New Testament.  Maybe another Testament needs to be introduced  to drag the church into the 21st century - A Modern Testament.

As a parent I want my kids to be happy in whatever they do so if it came down to a vote on whether or not there should be gay marriages, I would firmly put my mark in the YES box.

Equal Rights and Common Sense should prevail.

These are my ramblings based on what I believe in and nothing else.  I'm not open to debate on this matter but please feel free to leave a comment.

Hillsborough Poem

I wrote this poem soon after the Hillsborough tragedy and proves, even as a naive 17 year old, we all knew the truth but families of the 96 that died and survivors who were there that day, have had to fight for 23 years for the rest of the world to see.

Only this week (12/09/2012) the results of the Hillsborough Independent Panel's findings were published and the truth is now documented in black and white.

Full details can be found here http://hillsborough.independent.gov.uk/

My poem...

The crowd gathered
to watch the game
but to the officials
it only brought shame.

They started to push
when they thought they were late
so a senior officer
opened the gate.

Like a gallon of water
out of a funnel
the 3000 fans
rushed down the tunnel.

They all squashed in
the Leppings Lane End
and like pipe-cleaners
the barriers did bend.

On the pitch
a Policeman came
and, after 6 minutes,
the ref stopped the game.

An ambulance came
onto the football ground
and even then
some dead were found.

From the tunnel
the fans still gushed
and the kids at the front
to death they were crushed.

The police and the fans
were clearly shocked
to see three gates
that were still locked.

Across the pitch
a line was formed
to stop the Forest fans
being stormed.

But everyone
was on their best behaviour
and some of them
became a fans saviour.

An inquest began
soon after the game
and immediately the police said
they weren't to blame.

As people outside Anfield
wait in the queue
others lay down their scarves
both red and blue.

Most people in the hospitals
are very much alive
as we say Rest in Peace
"Hillsborough 95"

(The 96th victim was in a permanent coma following the tragedy and died almost 4 years later after the courts allowed him to 'die with dignity'.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tony_Bland)

Girls going Bananas in Pyjamas

I was watching a programme a few nights ago which was mainly set in Liverpool and a little piece of me died inside.

I've always been proud to be from Liverpool and try to promote the positive side of the City but what this car-crash telly focused on actually left me cringing.

So what was the main focus?

Scouse girls in their PJ's!

But not just PJ's - Rollers as well.

I know girls walk around the street in pyjamas, I've seen them. But I've always assumed they were going to the local shops, except Tesco..they're banned!

No, I was wrong.  These were walking through Church Street in the City Centre.

Of course, I would like to think these were just attention seeking wannabe's who got wind of a few television cameras and rushed into Town.  It would be naive of me to think that as, I'm afraid, this is probably the norm for them.

So let's look at the possible scenarios:

Scenario 1 : Girl jumps out of bed wearing her pyjamas puts on her shoes and goes out. If this is the case, YOU STINK.  Get a wash.  There is no excuse.

Scenario 2 : Girl jumps out of bed wearing her pyjamas, does the decent thing and gets washed and then puts on some clean pyjamas.  If this is the case, WHAT'S THE POINT.  Put some outdoor clothes on.  I'm not asking you to put on your Sunday best or spend hours choosing an outfit if you're only going shopping.  You're Scouse, throw on a trackie.  It might be a cliche but at least you can wear it outside and not be ridiculed. 

Please, if anyone can come up with a sensible reason for why girls do this, let me know.  I bet nobody can.

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SIR Kenny Dalglish?

I recently stumbled across a letter I wrote to LFC Magazine almost 10 years ago when the topic at the time was on the lines of  "Should  Kenny Dalglish be given a Knighthood?" (an extract of this was used in the article - yay me!)

As it turned out, this is only part one of the story.

Liverpool were in turmoil and disarray soon after new owners took over in 2007.  The Rafa Benitez era, which looked so promising, came to an end in June 2010.  By this time, Kenny Dalglish was already back at the club working in the Academy and acting as Club Ambassador.  He was asked for help in looking for Rafa's replacement and, despite wanting the role himself, the job was give to Roy Hodgson.

Roy's reign came to an end after just 6 months.  Too many defeats from the start of the season left Liverpool far too close to the relegation zone.  Kenny Dalglish took the reins as Caretaker Manager on January 8th 2011.  With the transfer window open, Kenny was thrust into the spotlight on the very last day.  Selling Torres to Chelsea for £50m and buying Carroll from Newcastle for £35m - Shrewd business or a panic buy?

After a relatively successful end to the campaign, considering the poor start, Liverpool finished in 6th place just missing out on a Europa League place.
In May 2011, Kenny signed a 3 year deal and he was back for a second term.

A disastrous spell of league form in 2012 should not overshadow the fact Kenny, in his first full year in charge, guided Liverpool to their first cup win in 6 years when they lifted the Carling Cup in February. With the FA Cup still to play for, is the 2011-2012 season really as bad as people and many 'fans' think?
The 'Kenny Out' brigade need to look at the bigger picture and realise most teams in the Premier League won't win a single trophy never mind be fighting for two.

Kenny Dalglish is a Liverpool legend and always will be.  It surely must only be a matter of time, as I stated almost 10 years ago, before the powers that be recognise Kenny for what he has achieved and give him the Knighthood he deserves.

All this without mentioning all the charity work he does away from football!

SIR Kenneth Mathieson Dalglish - you will never walk alone.

James Bulger Memorial Trust

Not long after my first post regarding James,
http://derekmoore549.blogspot.com/2012/02/never-forgotten-james-bulger.html
I discovered a charity was set up in his name by his mother Denise.

The charity's aims are “To benefit and support young people who are disadvantaged by reason of having become the victims of crime, hatred or bullying. To reward those who are judged to have shown exemplary conduct, making a positive contribution to the welfare of others, or society in general..."

(Registered Charity Number: 1141125)

Full details can be found on the official 'For James' website www.forjames.org 

Lots of events have taken place in order to raise money for the charity including 'Swim for James' by Lesley Lloyd and more recently, 'Laughter Factory' with Pauline Daniels and Gary Skyner.

I hope by raising awareness of the charity, the memory of James and the good work done by so many people will carry on.

Good luck to all those involved.

James Bulger Memorial Trust can be followed on Twitter... @jbmt1

"Gone, but never forgotten."

Never Forgotten - James Bulger

Nineteen years ago today, 2 year old James Bulger had his life taken from him in the most horrible way.  He was taken from The Strand shopping centre in Bootle and savagely tortured & beaten by 2...monsters.  These monsters were just 10 years old (I am using the term 'monsters' purposely as nothing else can describe them) and have already been released back into society to live their lives (although at least one has since returned to gaol for different crimes).

I don't normally feel emotional when bad things happen to other people but this tragic event is one of probably only 2 events that gets to me everytime I think of them (the other being Hillsborough and the ongoing fight for justice).

So why this event?  I'm not quite sure.  At 21, I didn't have kids then so can't relate to it as a parent.  I was in The Special Constabulary at the time and we were allowed to be attached to other departments.  On the Friday James went missing, I was working with the Traffic Police at Smithdown Lane.  The duty Sergeant came into the duty room and gave the usual hand-over of events that day.  One of the items was of a 2 year old boy who went missing from a shopping centre in Bootle.  Hand-overs like this were quite monotonous and were just part of the routine at the start of the shift.  This one struck a chord with me and I actually wrote down the details (description, etc) on a scrap piece of paper.
James Bulgers mutilated body was found 2 days later.

On the Tuesday or Wednesday the following week, I was walking back from Dale Street to Stanley Road Police Station to finish another shift when a call came out for assistance in Snowdrop Street, Kirkdale.  A house was being targeted by an angry crowd as it was rumoured to be the home of someone involved in the murder.

When I arrived at the street, there was a large crowd, TV crews and newspaper reporters.  It had to be explained to the people if the house was trashed it could destroy any evidence linking the boy who lived there to the crime.  Emotions were clearly running high.
As it turned out, the boy who lived there had nothing to do with what happened but due to the events, the family had to move away.

I still feel emotional even after all this time when I think of James Bulger.  I've even had to stop writing this piece after looking up certain facts and come back to it.

I don't know how Denise Fergus and Ralph Bulger have managed to cope after all this time I just hope they can find peace sometime.

Now, as the father of four kids, I'm relieved when my kids come home safe after playing out or coming home from school.  Nobody should have to suffer the way Ralph, Denise and certainly not James have done.

James Bulger - Never Forgotten



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_James_Bulger

Justice for Kevin Williams

This is my first attempt at a blog...and probably my last (although unlikely!)
So why now?

Well, I normally do my snippets and rants via Twitter (@degsy1013) but sometimes 140 characters just isn't enough.

Today has been all about Anne and Kevin Williams.  Kevin sadly died at Hillsborough aged just 15  (we all know what 'Hillsborough' means so I won't go into detail).  He died, apparently, at 15:15.  Why so accurate with the time? That is the legal cut off point of those who died that day.
His mother Anne has been campaigning since to have his inquest reopened as she has hard evidence he was alive up to 40 minutes past 15:15.

She started an on-line petition (E-Petition) that, by Government rules, meant if she got 100,000 signatures her case could be discussed in the House of Commons and potentially be re-opened.

This is the link to the E-Petition...

http://epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/19149 

I think it was Tuesday 17th January when this suddenly went high profile with 50,000 signatures still needed.

Like many others I tweeted and re-tweeted this link to make as many people aware as possible.  I contacted somewhere in the region of 15 'Celebrities' and what I call big accounts (those high profile ones with lots of followers) up to 3 times.  Sadly only 4 actually retweeted (and hopefully signed).  I'm sure the others are very busy but it takes 2 seconds to hit the 'retweet' button so there is no excuse in my mind.  Even if they didn't agree (why wouldn't they?) what harm would it do to retweet it?  I could 'name and shame' them but it doesn't matter now as without their help at approx 14:00, the 100,000 signatures target was achieved.

The sense of relief when the target was reached was fantastic.  God only knows how Anne felt, but this is only part of her battle.

It's now up to people in the Commons to have yet another Hillsborough debate but hopefully common sense will prevail.

Well done to everyone involved in this.  Hopefully Anne will get the outcome she has been after for 22 years.
(The details in this are correct as I know it. Please feel free to correct me.)

#JUSTICEFORKEVIN